1. Return Your Gear
Your league will send instructions on when and where to return equipment. This typically includes footballs, cones, the whistle, flags, and jerseys. Follow their instructions carefully.
Common steps:
- Collect jerseys from all players (remind parents in your final message)
- Count everything to make sure nothing is missing
- Return gear by the deadline to the specified location
Tip: Collect jerseys at your final game or gathering if possible. Chasing down missing jerseys after the season is tedious. A quick reminder to parents the day before usually helps.
2. Thank-You Note to Parents
Within a few days of the season ending, send a message to all parents. Keep it genuine and brief.
What to include:
- Thank them for trusting you with their kids
- Acknowledge anyone who helped you coach (assistant coaches, parent volunteers)
- Share a highlight or two from the season
- Remind them to return jerseys if you haven't collected them yet
Sample email:
3. Thank-You Note to League Organizers
This one gets overlooked. The people who run your league put in significant time and effort to make the season happen. Send them a separate thank-you.
Yes, it's their job. But the opportunity to impact young kids wouldn't exist without them. A short note goes a long way.
Sample email:
This matters more than you think. League organizers deal with complaints all season.
4. Individual Player Feedback (Extra Credit)
This is optional but meaningful. If you saw a player make significant progress during the season, send their parents a short note about it.
What makes this valuable:
Parents see their kid at practice and games, but they don't always see the full picture. Specific feedback about growth lets them know their child's effort was noticed.
What to include:
- Be specific about what improved (not just "they got better")
- Mention a moment you observed that showed the growth
- Keep it short. Two or three sentences is enough
Example:
Tip: You don't need to send these to every family. Pick the kids where you saw real growth. Forced or generic feedback is worse than no feedback.
5. Off-Season Resources
Some kids will want to keep developing between seasons. You can help by forwarding information about camps and clinics when you come across them.
What to share:
- Local flag football camps
- Skills clinics run by your league or nearby programs
- General athletic development programs
You don't need to actively search for these. Just forward relevant opportunities when you see them. A quick "Saw this and thought some of you might be interested" is enough.
Keep it optional:
Not every family wants or can afford extra activities. Share information without pressure. Some kids will jump at it, others will take the break. Both are fine.
Next season signup:
Keep an eye out for when the league opens registration for the next season. When you see the announcement, forward it to your parents so families can register.
6. Reflect on Your Season
Take 15 minutes to write down what worked and what you'd do differently. You'll forget by next season if you don't.
Questions to consider:
- Which drills worked best? Which fell flat?
- What plays did your team run well? Which never clicked?
- How did your rotation system work? Would you change it?
- What would you say differently in your first parent email?
- What do you wish you'd known at the start of the season?
Keep these notes somewhere you can find them. When you sign up to coach again, review them before your first practice.
Every season makes you better. The fact that you're reflecting means you care about improving. That puts you ahead of most coaches before you even start next year.
7. Find next year’s coach
Somebody is going to sit at the sign-up table next season the way you did, and think they can’t do it. You are now the person who can tell them otherwise.
Two minutes of work: in your thank-you email to parents, add a line asking who’s interested in helping or coaching next season. You’ll be surprised. Then send them this site.
Post-Season Checklist
Everything in one place. Check them off as you go.